this! but i digress... the kids planted themselves in front of the PS2 at home, the boys went to the porch for drinking and cigar smoking, which left jenn and denise and i alone at the kitchen table for some much needed girl talk over a pot of coconut tea and some of the fabulous lavender vanilla tea biscuits allegra sent to me for the knitter's tea swap i did a couple of months ago. such a nice night! and can i just say--the weather for this weekend is supposed to be FABULOUS: mostly sunny, high of 85°, 0% chance of precipitation. sailboat, here we come!!!